A little bit of the rollercoaster I call my ever-changing life...

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Get over yourself!!

So last night we drove by the dealership to see Ryan's new car (he hadn't seen it yet because they had to dealer trade for it and he had to sign papers by the 30th in order to get the 0% financing). Anyhow, so we go to the dealership to see it and as we are leaving I let him know that my family knows about it. He originally wanted to keep it a secret and see when they would notice (yeah, dumb to me too). But I was with my brother when he called me to go to the dealership so he knew and I wasn't all about making it a surprise anyhow so they know. So as we are leaving I let him know that my family knows and he says to me, "Well just so you know I'm not going to be taking people for test drives and acting as chauffeur just so they can see my new car." I'm sorry, dick wad. I didn't know anyone asked to see your new car. And even if they wanted to, it's not like they have cooties they'll get all over your precious f'ing car or anything. They really are realatively clean people. They bathe regularly and respect other people's property. And trust me, you are one of the last people my family is feeling like getting excited for lately.

Oh, and to add to my shitty day...my mom was emailing me earlier and I said that she is welcome to come to Alliance to see fireworks (we go to Silver Park a lot of years) she made the comment, "Well that didn't exactly work out last time." Now, I know she didn't mean it in a bad way, but it completely hurt. See, the last time they tried coming up for fireworks Ryan threw a huge hissy fit about how he didn't want people in his apartment and all that crap. So my poor parents planned to come up and we could all do a picnic and everything, and then he ruined it. That's not fair. And I know, life's not fair. But seriously. Doesn't he know what he's doing to me?!

6 comments:

Jill said...

Sweetheart, you HAVE to get out of that relationship. He's destroying you, and it makes me want to cry. You are SO much better than that! You deserve someone who will send you flowers and call just to say he loves you. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and respect your family. You deserve someone who will see how amazing you are and will cherish every bit of it.... not try to stomp it out. If you need help with ANYTHING I'm here. Really, you wouldn't be bothering me... I really want to help you.

Mombi said...

He doesn't know if you're not telling him. You've gotta stand up for yourself.

xoxo

Kristin said...

You definitely need to stand up for yourself Becky. Don't let him keep treating you like this. It's not fair for you to have to keep dealing with his childish attitude. He is very destructive to you.

andrea said...

can i wash his mouth out with soap? for fucking real.

ok that is all. i love you.

JenM said...

How many of us would he recognize from the board if we all found him in a dark parking lot somewhere and took turns kicking him?

I'm sorry Becky, you don't deserve this.

The Red Headed Mama said...

I just have to say JenM's comment made me giggle...but seriously, we could all wear masks or something...

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